girls

wraith of fire · Post by **wraith of fire** » Wed Apr 02, 2003 3:25 pm

does anyone have a clear idea on how to approach a girl? if you do please tell me.

Furik · Post by **Furik** » Wed Apr 02, 2003 5:23 pm

First off, there are many ways to approach this subject. Even though I am not fond of girls myself, I still know how to make them notice you

1. if you want to act shy and innocent towards a girl, do so. like, pretend you drop something and say, "oh" and such and pick it up, and apologize to her, even though she did not do anything.
2. if you want to act all tough and stuff, start cussing when something is wrong and make her notice you.

Asmaria · Post by **Asmaria** » Wed Apr 02, 2003 5:49 pm

*cough* >.> I dunno Furik, I'm not quite sure that's gonna work. Unless they like a false approach.

Be yourself. Ultimately, if you're going to get along with this person for the point of a long time relationship, being yourself is the most important thing. Because if they don't like who you really are, and you're just trying to be what they want, you're not going to be happy, and when they find out you're only acting that way to get their attention... neither are they.

As a girl myself, I can say that pretending to act tough or shy isn't gonna do a thing to get my attention.

I think the important thing is to first get to know someone you like. If then you can tolerate each other, take the next step and ask them out. But pay attention to if it seems like they like you too.

Of course, you can just go up and ask them out directly. But chances are that if they have no clue who you are, they may just say no.

Crono · Post by **Crono** » Wed Apr 02, 2003 5:52 pm

Im not an expert at this stuff ,but i usually just mix em both together and to my surprise sometimes it works.<bum bum bum scary> Well thats my personality anyways.Just do whatever feels right.'Cause if you DO act like someone you are not they will eventually find out and thats big trouble on the relationship front(for some).

wraith of fire · Post by **wraith of fire** » Wed Apr 02, 2003 10:03 pm

we're at the going out stage and we've hugged but i'm ready f or the next area but... i don't know if she is.

wraith of fire · Post by **wraith of fire** » Wed Apr 02, 2003 10:03 pm

we're at the going out stage and we've hugged but i'm ready f or the next area but... i don't know if she is.

YashaOokami · Post by **YashaOokami** » Thu Apr 03, 2003 12:26 am

Hn..since when has this become a dating help service? x.o;; I cant really say much,but just be yourself.Dont be acting like someone else who isnt the real you.And try not to say the wrong things,it can slip sometimes

megaman exe · Post by **megaman exe** » Thu Apr 03, 2003 2:50 am

be your self do not run away or be shy be your self and don't try to impress her. just talk and be your normal self.