Family problems..

MahoNPC · Post by **MahoNPC** » Tue May 27, 2003 12:31 am

I need some comforting..my family keeps fighting over little things and I can't stand it anymore..I was hoping,if maybe some people could help me..please?

KiteShugo · Post by **KiteShugo** » Tue May 27, 2003 12:36 am

try talking to them and ask them why they are fighting over stupid stuff

MahoNPC · Post by **MahoNPC** » Tue May 27, 2003 12:39 am

I did..but they just won't shutup..

Rubedo · Post by **Rubedo** » Tue May 27, 2003 12:40 am

Well i'm in the same situation as you, so I know what you are going through. My family fights over the little things as well. So if you need someone to talk to, I'm here.

And KiteShugo, that won't work.

KiteShugo · Post by **KiteShugo** » Tue May 27, 2003 12:44 am

it did for me when my parents didn't talk to one another for 4 months

Rubedo · Post by **Rubedo** » Tue May 27, 2003 12:58 am

MahoNPC, if you can't stand it anymore...... Well this is what I do. I find my fav CD, and put on my headphones and just draw. Because you really can't do anything about it if they won't listen. You just got to hope for the best.

KiteShugo wrote:it did for me when my parents didn't talk to one another for 4 months

Well i'm glad that it work for you, but same family, it just won't work.

MahoNPC · Post by **MahoNPC** » Tue May 27, 2003 1:07 am

Heh..no more family problems,whats so bad about laundry anyways?><

Rubedo · Post by **Rubedo** » Tue May 27, 2003 1:20 am

MahoNPC wrote:Heh..no more family problems,whats so bad about laundry anyways?><

Your family was fighting over that? Your family is as bad as mine.

MahoNPC · Post by **MahoNPC** » Tue May 27, 2003 1:26 am

Heheh I hate my family sometimes..grandparents and brothers ><

KiteShugo · Post by **KiteShugo** » Tue May 27, 2003 1:30 am

they were fighting over laundry

Rubedo · Post by **Rubedo** » Tue May 27, 2003 1:33 am

MahoNPC wrote:Heheh I hate my family sometimes..grandparents and brothers ><

I will agree to that, especially the brother part.

KiteShugo wrote:they were fighting over laundry

Yes, some family's are that bad, just be thankful your family don't fight over things like that.

MahoNPC · Post by **MahoNPC** » Tue May 27, 2003 1:39 am

hehe Rubedo,we have so much in common its not even funny lol

ara · Post by **ara** » Tue May 27, 2003 2:14 am

My parents and grandparents fight a lot. I have no siblings, so I'm somewhat lucky. My parents fight over going to the the store. My family is a bunch of crazy people. I have too many relatives. -_-

bountyhunterryouko · Post by **bountyhunterryouko** » Tue May 27, 2003 3:16 am

It's ok. MY family use to fight alot too. The biggest problem seemed to be money... WAIT that still a problem.

but yeah, I would just listen to my music, and block out the rest of the world. And I'm fine. So my twin sis. we both turned out ok.

Guynietoren · Post by **Guynietoren** » Tue May 27, 2003 5:08 pm

I know a lot of people who fight perpetually. Some people just don't understand that they can CHOOSE to react to something in a different way. They get too caught up in their first emotional response when something bad happens. I've seen a heated fight over ranch dressing over bleu cheese. Perspective doesn't matter when you're at the center of your own heart. Looking after number 1 doesn't work well in family life.